Tuesday, February 21, 2006

Hobby friends

Hobby-friends are people we end up meeting because we revolve in similar circles.The Hobby-friend is someone who plays the same sport that we do,a person we kick it with every weekend at church or a girl or guy that works at our job.There's good and bad part about having hobby-friends.The good stuff is that you don't usually expect to have it out with a hobby-friend or have to endure full-on fights.The fact is that we just don't really see hobby-friends often enough to move to a deeper level where we're each pushing each other's buttons or making one another mad.
Here's the thing though.Our hobby-friends aren't the shoulder we cry on when things go bad.Our hobby-friend doesn't usually have to deal with us when we're cranky,stressed,bossy,or being a complete pain in the but.
Instead,hobby-friends almost always get to see us at our best because we spend only a limited amount of time with them.And guess what?We usually see their best side too.Its hard to guess what our hobby-friends can really be like day in and day out because we both see each other for so little time.
There's always an exception to any rule,though,right?
In the case of a hobby friend,the exception might be a hobby that crosses over to your daily life.You guys might see each other in all your classes,go on trips to conventions,performances or games,and see each other at weekly practice sessions.
What all of this time together can mean is that you have a chance to do some serious bonding.Be on the look out for hobby-friends that can cross over into your daily life.You may pick up a TRIED-AND-TRUE FRIEND! Posted by Picasa

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